Neil Gaiman quotes about love “Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.

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Sunday, January 31, 2010

Emotional Atyachar syndrome

Now a days more and more young people are getting affected by this dangerous emotional syndrome.
in the past this syndrome was quite prevalent in the western nations but now a days it is also affecting Indian subcontinent.so what is the reason ?
why is this plague of cheating,extra marital affairs ,break ups ,divorce etc is growing so fast here in India.
actually its a part of evolution but the evolution is not always right this time its a wrong one .
when we gets bored with the traditional system we want change and change is not always better.and this time its devastating for our culture.
unlike past now a days guys and girls want to experiment, they want to date ,they want to experiment a little bit and sometimes they also want to have some fun out of it.
but actually we are emotional people .we are just pretending to we strong which we are not at all we are very sensitive and emotional kind of persons
its very hard for us to keep away our sentiments from these so called casual relationships.
it starts as a part of fun but in the end it hurts our emotions and we become a victim of this emotional atachar syndrome
so whats the right way
how can we save ourself?
in my opinion traditional is always traditional .
don't get involve with someone just for fun.
always make a clear demarcation between a casual affair and a serious relationship
experimentations with emotions is not the right way,
my dear its just like playing with fire and that too without any precautions. play with it only if you really want to get burnt
in the initial period of any affair if you are seriously beginning to like someone don't haste to trust on him
trust is something very precious and personal thing and my dear not every tom , dick and harry deserves it.
don't make relationships in one or two meetings or so called dates rather build your relationships over time . this way you can get some good time to understand each other. you can check your chemistry again and again.
dear, you can get attract to someone s beauty in a jiffy but to make a successful couple beauty is just nothing, take my words in a good and healthy relationship beauty alone is nothing.
love means heart to heart,soul to soul its a bliss .
it gives you power , it makes you strong
so use your mind don't fall pray to emotional atyachar syndrome
lastly don't hesitate to share your feelings about this post......bye

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